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Sunday, January 2, 2011

Sweet Like Choc

Happy first anniversary! Cinta sampai hujung hati.


It’s a long break.


Some of the times I found myself feeling restlessly guilty. Guilty that I’m not doing my work. I purposely left my lappie. Memang purposely distract me myself from any kind of work-thingy. But excluding FB and blogspot from the lists are impossible. Tapi bukak kejap-kejap jela.. husband ada kat sebelah 24hrs so haruslah ngadap muka masing-masing je. :)


Both of us took leave to spend the last week of 2010 together. So we had our babymoon+balik kampung+new year together. :) Being LDM couple was never easy. All these while asyik plan macam-macam dan asyikla tak jadi. So we planned to get the leave first then baru fikir nak buat ape time cuti.


BABYMOON


We never had a proper honeymoon..I guess because we live in the world of LDM, everytime jumpa tu mesti rasa macam honeymoon. Nak jumpe seminggu sekali memang tak pernah. Setakat ni mesti 2-3 minggu sekali. Rindu wohhhhh. Lebih-lebih lagi kalau jumpa kat KL, semestinya bermalam kat hotel, kan. Tak kesahla berapa star hotel tu..yang penting dalam hati kami tetap ada lima bintang. :D



Berbabymoon di Petaling Jaya saje.. :D


Hehe. Nothing special. Just spent our quality time together. Cecece. Macam kualiti sangat, kan. Segalanye best termasuklah part I terkatup pintu kereta dengan tangan kiri padahal tangan kanan masih lagi pegang bahagian atas kereta sebab mase nak duduk kat seat adalah mengalami kepayahan yang amat sangat, kene pegang bumbung kereta dulu. Tataula kenapa tindakbalas refleks macam lambat sekarang ni. Biasenye orang kalau tersepit pintu kereta confirm terus jerit saket. I bleh pulak terdiam dan berfikir kenapa tangan kanan masih kat atas dan luar kereta. Dan ye, kenapa eh tangan rase saket??? Saket wooo.
How lembab i am! Tapi bile ingat balik memang kelakarla. Saket tangan guwe. Nasib baik sendiri yang tutup pintu tu. Cuba kalau cik abang tu yang tolong tutupkan, maunye patah riuk jari-jemari ni. Hehe. Ngeri tak?



BALIK KAMPUNG



Terengganu here we come!


Patin tempoyak @ R&R Raub


I really love keropok lekor. Love nasi dagang. Love nasi lemak lauk sambal ikan. I really love husband's hometown, of course. Entahla..seronok semacam.


Delima


Umie tetibe belikan buah delima..
suruh menantu dia ni makan.. :D


And then ada satu petang, outing with Umie.


MIL: Umie ni lagi berahi pakai seluar. Kalau pakai baju kurung, susah nak jalan, susah nak duduk. Rasa
macam teddy-bear pulak.



Me: Gelak.



Okey. Gelak sebab my MIL sebut teddy-bear. Rasa macam comel. :D



Ini gambar masa tunang dulu. Ye, my MIL comel orangnye. Hmm..tengok gambar tunang, teringat baju tunang..memang takkan muatlah sampai bile-bile. Time tu berat 44kg jeeee. Tapi husband kate time tu saye tak lawa sebab kurus sangat..Hehe. Sort of motivational quotes from him la sebenarnye to soothe my uneasy feelings bout my body changes.



Baby bumps at 6 months


Rase diri sendiri pun dah serupa teddy-bear. Bila duduk rase nak mengangkang je supaya dapat bagi ruang yang selesa pada perut. Pastu bile dah lama duduk, nak bangun sangat payah. Rase nak tergolek pun ada. Time rase 'sengkak' perut tu datang, solat pun terpaksa duduk je. Tak larat nak bangun berdiri lepas sujud.


Float @ A&W Pantai Batu Burok


Mengidam nak minum float. Time preggie can't drink carbonated drinks rite? I minum sket je. Asal dapat rasa pun jadiklaaaa.



Penat berjalan jauh. Journey KT-Batu Pahat took us almost 12 hours. 6 kali berenti untuk makan-minum-solat. And tiap kali berenti tu I had to clear up my bladder. Rase macam paip bocor pulak. Tak boleh tahan-tahan. T____T.


Part posing amik gambar -- he's the real champion!


Ye, kening die macam kening Ziana Zain.I can't believe it. He can be annoying at times, but which men isn't? Plish ignore my swollen face and the eye bag. Actually, sebab jalan jauh and lama sangat dok dalam kereta, certain parts of my body jadi bengkak. Bengkak air kots. Huuu.



Do we look so in love?? Boo. Boo. Boo. Urghhh..I can't beat his height. Ni pun dah pakai heels setinggi almost 2 inch. Okeylah I tipu. Pak encik ni. Kalau bleh kaki ayam, die dah suruh I berkaki ayam je kot. Jangan harap nak menyarung kaki setinggi-tingginya.


Baby dah mula respond bila daddy die ajak main tendang-tendang. Sian baby..jarang jumpe daddy, kan. Tapi I lagi kesian kat daddy die. Baru dalam seminggu ni bleh spend masa tengok sendiri perkembangan baby dan pengembangan bini die. Heh. Like Sabby said, baby macam kenal je daddy dia. Bile husband panggil-panggil die respond with those kickingsss. Miracle. Perasaan yang sangat sayu bila husband main-main dengan baby sampai tertido dan tangan si dia masih di perut I. Can't believe it. We managed to went thru those hardships of being apart from each other. Baru setahun..Tak tahulah sampai bila..Yang penting stay strong and stronger.



NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS


Beautiful thing in 2010

  • A wonderful lifetime soulmate. Although sometimes we fought like hell.
  • Survived the Long Distance Marriage.
  • Survived living alone in this home sweet home.
  • A bun in the oven. Counting days.
  • Had two lil rascals - Timtim and Tammy.
  • Submit thesis

Welcoming 2011
  • Successful confinement session - get back slim figure. Hehe.
  • A good mummy
  • A better wifey
  • Need to do something with my messy hair coz husband kate rambut I masuk kat mate die time tido.
  • Pass the Viva with pelangi colors. Submit correction a.s.a.p.
  • TOEFL
  • GRE
  • Study leave
  • phD
  • Murah rezeki
  • Stronger than ever. I promise to myself not to cry each time husband start enjin kete untuk balik KL and leave me behind.
  • Kuat untuk menguruskan anak secara Sendirian Berhad nanti berbekalkan semangat dari husband.
  • Sentiasa bersyukur dengan nikmat Allah


Saye mintak macam-macam dari Allah. Oleh itu saye berazam untuk menjadi hambaNya yang lebih baik. Insyaallah.



5.5 months..and it looks like I don't have any bumps. :)

17 comments:

CiK pUaN mAmA bAm-BaM said...

bump x nmpk sgt...tp tang mn kate gain 10kg tu?? heheh

same2 la kite jage anak time suami xde di sisi nnt.. insyaallah semuanye ok.

ally said...

wah..dah setahun dah LDM..me, yg baru half year pon dah rs x tertanggung...=( tp xpe, kene kuat semangat kan..chayok2! * nad, plan for phd oversea ya? gud luck for all preparations!*

MyRule said...

Eppy annivesary nad..

Takper..baby faham daddy dia jauh. Nanti boleh jadi macam baby Ammar :).
LDR ni buat kami semua jadi lebih independent, kuat and survivor :P

k|ree said...

hehee...comel...tue je yg nak kata dlu...

yg penting sihat...baby n mommy pun sihat..

kiree mmg tgh counting sgt2 nie...dan perasaan cuak mula melanda diri...ehehe...

take care dear..

Mrs.Qarlista said...

e'ein..tang perot..pipi..paha sket..hehe.tapi nih dh exceed 10kilos la yang..tatau dah bape ni..tak berani nak timbang..wuuu..


insyaallah, boleh buat! ni tengah pk2..tak bleh dah merewang pas keje dahhh..:)



ally: sedar tak sedar dah masuk setahun siyesly tak perasan. hehe. bleh kire bape hari jumpe husband. memang pun..kadang2 rase macam tak tertanggung.tak daya dah..tapi nak buat macammane, perlu sabarrrr..:P

Mrs.Qarlista said...

mai: thanx for the wish!


sedey kadang2..malam2 bile cramp kaki ke pinggang ke sakit belakang ke kene gigit nyamuk ke (eheh)sume kene tanggung sorang2. ni lagila sekarang dah tak larat nak jalan sanga. baru jalan sket dah mengah. camne tu. hehe.


suke tengok baby ammar! and adore mai sebab bleh perah susu sendiri. banyak pulak tu. hehe. sumber inspirasi tuuu.

Mrs.Qarlista said...

kiree..ape yang comel? perot? hehe. perot nad kecik je..jeles tau tengok perot kiree! hehe.


setakat ni takde saket2, alhamdulillah..semoga di permudahkan sampai baby kuar nanti..dah kuar nanti pun mintak2 tak banyak ragam..senang ngandungkan budak kecik ni (huu..compared to others kan..) kalau tak camnela nak endure sume sorang2.

Chekgu Azrine said...

salam, why took u so long to update..sihat ke...hehhee...HAPPY ANNIVERSARY AND MORE HAPPINESS IN 2011...really hope so...amin!!

Nana Aris said...

happy anniversary cik nadd..may u both will be blessed with everlasting love =)

mama affan said...

semoga kita sama2 tabah..huhu..

sbb part bila en.suami nak balik semula smbg keje lps seminggu cuti utk jumpa lbh kurang 3 mggu sekali..uh, mmg the most sad part..lagi2..bila seminggu tgn en.suami di perut, pastu 2 3 malam lps 2, bila baby tendang2, tgn papa nya xde..terasa sgt kan..

kita di dalam kasut yg sama..waaa...

BuTtErFlyInFraMe said...

Happy annivesary nad!

So sweet u both. mcm pasangan bercinta gitu. Hehe.

Alena pun cepat rasa sengkak tu. tak senang duduk dibuatnya. semua jadi tak kena. kalau baring, nak bangun, mmg susah. tapi bila bangun pagi, rasa ringan pulak badan.mcm2 hal kan preggy woman ni? apapun, tetap rasa enjoy... :)


Rezeki kita berperut kecik... :)

juneHalim said...

nad! ko comel sgt bila gemss...ko tgi, rsenye kita sama tgi kot.sokey la gemuk sket..55kg shud be ok.nnt da bersalin tamo kurus sgt tau.

tiap kali bce citer LDM ko ni, aku mst rse syhdu jek auuww..sabar n tabah k! ;)

Unknown said...

hye nad!!hepi anniversary babe...smoga kamu sntiasa brbhgia d'smpg hsband yg terchenta,n baby...Warghh..,beso dh peyut nad...x sabo nk tgu bby nad...^__^

sha said...

babe, ko time gemuk nampak lagi cantek la nad. so sile maintain badan gini ye pas beranak nanti, toksah nak slim2 sgt =p

Nadya Heidi aka nadxoxo said...

salam nad. kejap je kan dah 6 mths :D tomey je perut. xpe sabo kang lg sebulan dua dia akan membesar dengan jayanya hehe. take care!

harzharun said...

nad !...sah2 ko blk KT tp tetap kita xde rezeki nak jumpe lg...mcm mn nih???...aku ingat ko & huda gi wedding lunda..tp x pun..teringin jupe korang berdua.... kita nih, si bride blogger otai tau...ms kat wedding tu, ramai blogger yg baru2...seb bek dah bjaya jupe nawal...

tempoyak ikan patin!..wajib mkn bila singgah temerloh..heee..

hurmm...ada rahsia ni.....aku cuba pakai baju tunang last wik....xleh kacing weh!...azam tahun baru,nak bg buleh pakai balik baju tu...huuuuu

semoga apa yg ko impikan tu, tmakbul semuanya...

jaga diri & jaga baby yea...

thezaila said...

nad .. semalamt meng-enjoy the babymoon.. sangat seronok tgk kamoo

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